Wedding Planning and such....

Jeff and my competition. Back off Poison Waters.

Planning is not nearly as hard as I believed it would be.

I've found the most difficult part of planning is a tie between deciding what we wanted to do for the invitations and getting the sister in law in sync with our needs. She wanted something extravagant, I want something fun and laid back, I want my family and friends there, and I want veggie burgers. I want I want I want!!

One of the adorable flower girls.

But really, to me it all comes down to a commitment I made long ago, finalizing itself on paper. No amount of money could change that. This man has changed my life in so many ways and I cannot express how happy I've become. Work doesn't seem so horrible, money issues are working themselves out and I've lost my aggression at the wheel. Hooray!

Mr & Mrs Cheesy McCheeserson.

Goals.

I have a couple of things I would like to accomplish this year.

1) Lose some fat. I'm not overweight, but I have wide hips and a tummy on those hips that bothers me. Not the kind of tummy that inspired the phrase "muffin top" but I would like to have more definition in that area. With the lose fat idea, I would like to be able to cook more with a healthy approach. J and I have been going to the farmers market across the street but one of these days I would like to just pick up a veggie I've never cooked before and create a meal surrounding it. The people that are able to accomplish that amaze me.

2) Start and maintain a side job with my photography.

3) Finally start that promotion that was promised to me in December!

4) Improve my writing. I love to do it and I would like to pen the literary creations that makes other people take notice.

5) Pick up a new set of friends. Mine are too busy partying to spend a quiet Saturday drinking tea. I've been replaced by gin and cheap beer.

6) Help my baby to quit smoking. I don't know what I would do without him.